This
school year was unlike others. It began in another way. On the first of
September, as all final year students do, we were asked to ‘give a hand’ to little
children and lead them towards their first long-lasting and challenging
journey. We led them through the school entrance doors. That was strange, but
looking at those small faces I caught myself thinking that only 10 years
ago I was in their place. Hoping, dreaming, expecting and predicting my future
10 years at school and outside of it.
Apparently,
things look different from what they seemed those days. What looked endless, at
first sight, appeared to be as fast as speed of light. They evolved at immense
speed… and influenced our lives. In my personal opinion, our childhood was
stereotypeless in comparison with the childhood of this "new generation”. As a
result, we had more freedom and spontaneity. These qualities are the wisdom of
childhood years, I suppose. I don’t want my words to sound like they are being
said by someone old. However, little thought did I give to the size of my
future house, presence of a house keeper and level of my husband’s salary if I
fell in love with a boy in primary school. Nowadays, a girlfriend of my little
cousin gave him a complete list of what-to-buy and what-to-have in case they get
married. Even at 9 they know what they want to have when they get married!
Undoubtedly, it’s good, but anyway I think that at this age values must be
simpler and purer. There should be a tiny place for uncertainty, as, anyhow,
the times change. As
for teenagers, we also face the problem of taking significant decisions. I’m at
a crossroads now. In my future life I’ll follow the way that will be chosen
now. It’s a crucial moment. Everyone faces challenges in life. It’s a matter of
how you learn to overcome and use them to your advantage. So, as usual,
the flight of thought led me somewhere, but I do hope that this ‘somewhere’ was
quite logical. I
would like to finish with the words of an outstanding person Steve Jobs,
whose principles and life experience stood him in good stead. I think that this
quotation contains the idea of my whole writing. "Your time is limited, so
don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is
living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of
others’ opinions draw out your own inner voice. And most importantly, have the
courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you
truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” So to cut a long story
short and look back at these children, what I wanted to say is that we have to
live OUR lives. It shouldn’t be influenced by spirit of the times. We Must have
our own firm principles.
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